Tuesday, August 27, 2024 – A man called Nelson Chikaodili Igboke has said that the worst decision any married man will ever make in his life is to divorce his wife who has children for him.
The father of four, who stated this in a Facebook post on
Monday, August 26, advised men to embrace polygamy by marrying new wives if
they no longer love their first wives.
According to him, polygamy still remains the best form of
marriage.
“As a man, once your wife
have a child or children for you and you divorce her to marry another woman for
whatever reason, just think yourself a man who has two wives and nothing more.
Even if the woman in question marries another man, she still is your wife and
nothing changes that,” he wrote.
One can argue that the woman
is no longer your wife if the marriage is dissolved in the competent court of
law of the land. While we recognizes that fact, the law of the land can never
stop nature from taking it's cause in all the following possibilities.
1. If the man eventually
decides to see the mother of her children at any given time especially where
the children is involved. He does that while the said law gets crippled.
2. If the woman still loves
his first husband, she gets to see him using the children as a yardstick
especially as no law of any country forbids the woman from seeing her children
and anything can happen during the process.
3. The children can at any
given time wade in and bring their mother home even if the second husband
objects to that fact. The decision of the woman takes precedence in this case.
4. In a situation where the
woman loves the second husband and does not want to leave him for whatever
reason, she should be ready to practice a polyandry marriage if the scenario
becomes one that the first husband or the children gets interested in having
their mother around them.
5. Where all the above
scenarios doesn't come into play but both parties (the woman and her presumed
former husband) still have affections for each other, the channel of
communication must eventually be opened and the two separate entities come to
bond again.
6. Even if both parties
decides to move on without ever having anything to do with each other, the bond
can never be broken once children are involved and there's nothing any of them
can do about it.
The worst decision any
married man will ever make in his life is to divorce his wife who has children
for him. I repeat!!!! Do not divorce your wife for whatever reason.
If she is no longer needed by you, let her be your wife but marry another wife. It's not a crime. Polygamy still remains the best form of marriage. Do not allow whatever anyone will say make you take decisions you will regret later.
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